By Lyn Forde – President/Research Officer of St Marys & District Historical Society Inc.

SLEEPING in the churchyard of St Mary Magdalene at St Marys is Benjamin and Elizabeth Loveday. Benjamin was born in 1822 the son of Henry John Loveday born in 1794 at Great Yarmouth, Norfolk in England and Maria Finch. Ben married Elizabeth Blackburn in Tunstead, Norfolk and they came out to Australia as assisted immigrants as farm labourers in November 1852 on the “John Gray” from Beeston. Their only child Henry Benjamin was born in 1853 and christened in St Mary Magdalene church.  He married Annie Hazelwood Gully at Casino in 1882. In October 1894 Henry’s mother Elizabeth fell ill with bronchitis after being well for a considerable time. The family called for Dr Scott who came at once and pronounced the case a serious one and continued daily attendance and she improved although still very weak. The neighbours did all that they could, prominent among them was Sarah the wife of William Hackett who was in constant attendance but by November Elizabeth was sinking fast and couldn’t last much longer and she passed away. Ben died in January 1898.  It was said that “he mixed but little in public matters but attended at all times to the Church of England of which body he was a strong adherent”.  Ben was determined to go fishing and had secured some bait but later on be complained of diarrhea and was given a dose of chlordane that relieved him, but other problems plagued him, and other remedies were applied. Feeling better he retired to bed early with Henry in attendance at intervals. At 2 o’clock he gave Ben a drink and enquired how he was, and Ben said he was better. At 4 o’clock however on entering the room he found his father dead. Ben’s remains arrived at the Church and Reverend A C Corlette conducted a short service and Ben’s favorite hymns sung and his remains were interred alongside those of Elizabeth.  Ben was a builder of considerable repute. It was said he built “Tregear” the residence of John King Lethbridge and in company with Joseph Henry Sainsbury (another St Marys’ builder of repute) they built Neale’s first store. His own home was built by him and his orchard and garden that he took so much pride in and attended to by him turned into a good deal of money in later years.  Ben was strictly honorable in all his dealings and he and his wife had spent their whole lives quietly. They made many friends and at the time of his death he had not a single enemy that was known of.  In October 1899 their son Henry was killed in a fatal accident at Parramatta due to the removal of the large stone pillars that supported the portico of the old Parramatta Courthouse. These were destined for Church Street for a new business premises for Mr C G Hatte a well-known draper and clothier of Newtown. The fatality occurred during the lifting of the last pillar weighing over six tons and being loaded onto a trolly for removal. The pillar was encased in boards and on chains being lowered when the heel of the stay belonging to the crane kicked. This heel was backed up by a number of heavy stones and a massive stone pier 10 ft high and almost 4 ft square, the stones each weighing about 4 cwt. The kick from the heel of the crane lifted the pier and it toppled over into the street with the stones falling apart as it fell. It crashed through a frail barricade and landed on Henry who was looking at the operation but not realising the danger of standing near the pier and one stone passed over him and struck him in the face and two or three other stones struck him and he fell under them. The stone weight inflicted injuries that extended from his pelvis down the right leg that was crushed almost flat. He was taken to Parramatta District Hospital where he died. An inquest was held where the contractor William Partridge who saw Henry  pinned down by the stones stating that Henry’s shoulders were up against a telegraph post and the lower part of his body was pinned down. The jury retired for half an hour and a verdict to the effect that Henry met his death accidentally through the falling of a stone pier and that there was not sufficient evidence to show negligence. Henry’s body was brought from Parramatta by road and taken to his residence at St Marys. Reverend Dixon Hudson held a short service at Henry’s house and about 4 o’clock the funeral started on its way to the cemetery with the Reverend heading the procession. Messrs George T Bennett, Charles, John and William Hackett acted as pall bearers with over 200 people following in the procession. On arrival at the cemetery Henry’s body was taken into St Mary Magdalene Church where the Reverend conducted the service, and the company sang the hymn “ Thy will be done.” The coffin was then taken to the grave at the church and the last rites read. Conspicuous among the mourners were Mr J McGary (representative of the firm of Edwards and Company that Henry was connected to), Mr W W Campbell from St Marys and proprietor of Campbell’s large furniture warehouse in Sydney. A meeting of a Provisional Committee was held at the Temperance Hall in St Marys for the purpose of considering the best means of assisting Ben’s wife Annie Loveday.  The Mayor Michael Long presided and those present were Messrs Andrew Thompson, three members of the Hackett family, John King Lethbridge (Jnr), George T Bennett, Mr Laird, Mr G Quinn, and Reverend Dixon Hudson. An apology was read from Mr Guild. Charles Hackett was appointed Secretary and Treasurer and it was resolved to issue subscription lists and promises of collections in their districts that included the Mayor, Messrs J K Lethbridge (Jun), Andrew Thompson, Charles Hackett and G Quinn. They also asked the lady members of the Benevolent Society to collect in the township and also to seek the co-operation of the Mayors of  Mulgoa, Castlereagh, Windsor and Richmond. Over £20 had already been collected and promised in Parramatta and more than 200 tickets in connection with a concert to be held there. The proprietor of the Nepean Times promised to assist in any way in his power. Mr A H Hatte manager for the Parramatta branch of the Commonwealth Bank promised to raise a fund for the assistance and in addition he offered to give 2½  per cent on the takings as soon as it was fully opened. Photo of Ben Loveday’s home on the Highway courtesy of Penrith Library.

Sources: Loveday Family from ancestry, England & Wales Marriage Registration Index, Family Search (Mormon Site), Trove, Nepean Times.